Hello, I’m Lavanya
A little about me
I’m a deep thinker and I’m very curious about the world around me. I ask questions and don’t stop with unsatisfying answers. That’s often caused me to unravel parts of my life and rebuild them with new understandings and foundations. It’s been a difficult but rich path to take. It’s not been until more recently that I’ve discovered this doesn’t just have to be hard work, but it can also be fun, light, and even humorous. I bring my seriousness and depth to my work, but I also bring a lightness that allows more of my fullness into session; and hopefully allows for more of the fullness of those I work with. It’s also been a journey for me to integrate the part of myself that’s logical and likes to carefully study life with the part of me that’s intuitive. I am logical and research-driven and also artistic and intuitive, and those aspects now work together harmoniously. I received my doctorate in counseling psychology from the University of Texas at Austin, and have from there spent many years cultivating the art and the science of psychotherapy. I am committed to my own ongoing growth and learning and that serves as a foundation for the work I do with others. I’ve participated in advanced training in group psychotherapy from the Center for Group Studies, and really enjoy working with relationships in a group setting.
How I work
I use all parts of myself in my therapy work. My work is guided by the felt wisdom of my body, my intuition, my intellect, and my connection to community and ancestors. I invite the use of metaphor, dreams, imagery, somatic awareness as a way to access unconscious truths that lie beyond our conscious mind. These are powerful communications that can be honored and understood if given time and space. And in doing so, a path opens to cultivating a partnership with our unconscious. We are working to not just have an understanding of ourselves but a sense of home within ourselves. Instead of experiencing the world and our emotions as something we react to, forces that control us, we are able to develop inner mastery and create our world.
I give special attention in my work to the way systemic and collective experiences affect us all. These include experiences pertaining to race and gender. I hold in awareness these unconscious collective forces that are at play in the way I conceptualize clients’ experiences, whether we talk about them explicitly or not. The exploration of these forces in my own life has been a critical part of my growth, and it informs my work with others. For example, I’ve spent time in the exploration of the various layers of what it’s like to be an Indian woman in the world. I’ve also spent time in pursuit of understanding how the collective forces of patriarchy and White Supremacy exist within me and in all of us, regardless of our gender or race. These are complex issues that deserve a lot of space and time to examine so we can embrace who we are, explore diversity, and understand how we want to interact with those around us and these difficult issues in the larger world. Therapy is one format in which to engage in this exploration.
If you’re interested in complex and layered issues within yourself and the world around you that don’t have easy, obvious solutions, we might work well together.
You might also work well with me if you want to:
experience a fuller range of your emotional life
understand deeper aspects of your inner life and how to use that to affect your outer world
tap into and use your creative potential
understand and unblock unconscious processes that impede areas of your life
explore complex relationship dynamics and arrangements
expand your capacity for intimacy
clarify and work with giving and receiving in your relationships
unlock your sexual energy
step further into your power
understand the connection between emotional and physical aspects of yourself, the emotional underpinnings of health concerns
explore your experience and perception of race, gender, sexuality, and learn how to direct your action in the world
explore your relationship with the natural world and engage in effective action around climate change
learn to transform conflict through and listening and communicating clearly, thereby bridging differences